There's a saying, girls like bad boys.
Very true, indeed.
Bad boys are more appealing than they do the nerds and bad boys always come accross as
brave, gutsy which offers protection,
and feeling protected is what girls want.
Bad boys smoke, they look macho and are usually the womanizer.
Put them together with the nerds, nerds pull of the gawky look just right,
with their over-sized black-framed glasses whom might fidget when you got bullied. They're named the loosers in school and nobody wants to date a looser. But here's the downfall of dating a bad boy. They do not have a promising future.
They spent most of their time playing, being vein about their looks, spent their time looking cool or walloping their foes, but spent no time on books. They make a potential "ah long" as a matter of fact.
While nerds, on the other hand, might have a pretty dull life and might be fully dedicated to books itself but that's a trait to be admired, and not mocked. As lifeless they are now, they're our future doctors/lawyers/surgeon/engineer. I'm not saying every nerd would succeed sometime in their future, but its the possibility we're buying, not the guarantee.
Giving up your fun happy-go-lucky teenage life for a better future seems like a pretty fair trade to me, no?
Even more, nerds see a bigger picture. A picture which paints marriage as well. Girls who plan to have a committed relationship find nerds the best candidate.
Bad boys only see a limited picture. So limited you have to squint your eyes to get a glimpse of it and when you do, all you could see is one thing and one thing only: Sex. That's just the way the cookie crumbles. It's pretty obvious if you don't already know the intentions of these so called bad boys and what's worst, they kiss and tell! They'd share every single detail with their "brothers" during their "brother talk" and the victim (the bad boy's girl) would find many eyes locked at her with thousands of dirty thoughts running through their mind. I'm not saying nerds don't have that intention at all. Heck, they don't have a halo on top of their head, well, but at least they're worth it?
Girls are simple.
We want to marry and we want to marry good. A wealthy husband is preferable.
A loyal husband is to die for.
This is a dog eat dog world and guys, if you hit the age of 25 and you don't have a career or even a promising job, you're pretty much dead. Girls, upon reaching a certain age, matures to think for the better. No woman would jeopardise their future by marrying someone who can't even buy a house for their future family, and if you're still a parasite at 25 years old living with your parents and using their money, you'd probably find it impossible to get a wife-material girlfriend. Maybe, you would have a couple of flings here and there, but nothing serious.
No strings attached.
Pity.
But trust me, if a guy is non educated but has a whole fortune waiting for inheritance, girls will just see pass all your flaws. =)
Whatever it is, what one really wants is a loyal and faithful partner. Someone they could come home to to cuddle and soil in those flannel bedsheets at home, not someone who constantly leaves you cold alone at home.
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